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Take a look in the mirror. Can you make it on your looks alone? I can't. Therefore it's mandatory to rely on something other than your looks in order to meet sexy women in the singles bars.


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Take a look in the mirror. Can you make it on your looks alone? I can't. Therefore it's mandatory to rely on something other than your looks in order to meet sexy women in the singles bars. You must become appealing to her. You must reverse the normal procedure. By doing this you will be able to select and attract the really beautiful girls and become truly appealing to them. I want to pound this idea into your mind.

To attract women you must reverse the original situation. In the beginning you are attracted to her. You want to meet her. Your opening maneuver should be to turn the tables so that now she is attracted to you, and wants to meet you. This might seem difficult to you but it is very easy, You can accomplish this by arranging her first thoughts of you to be, "He is UNIQUE, CONFIDENT, AND VERY INTERESTING." Once you have arranged this, she will be very pleased to meet you and get to know you. With my methods it will matter very little what you look like because when you use any of the methods you will come across to a woman as being unique, interesting, and confident. You will be the kind of man any woman would want to meet and date. You will not be common. You will be different. Almost every woman I talked to was only willing to settle for the man she was presently dating because no other unique guy was around.

It is so easy to meet a lot of beautiful girls when you are able to be "different" than most guys. That is my job, to make you completely different than most guys. My goal is to make you and me the ladies men we were meant to be. This is a great verbal approach method. This technique worked on 70 out of the 75 girls it was tried on. A 93% success rate. Here is how it works: If I see a girl I would like to meet I will be extremely careful not to put her in an embarrassing situation. I will do my best to contact her without anyone in the bar being aware of it. I do not ask any direct questions such as asking if I can sit down or if I can buy her a drink. This may make her very uncomfortable by calling for an answer that she is not prepared to give.

I walk to her table and look directly into her eyes. Looking around will only make her think I'm nervous or uncertain. As soon as I reach the chair next to her I begin speaking. This is what I say to her: I want to say three things: I doubt that you will be alone very long; you're too pretty. If you are alone my theory is correct; most men are duds. I'd like to know you ... if only for ten minutes. Now I'm going back to my table to stare at my watch and cross my fingers for one minute. If during that time you do nothing I'll come back and sit down. Or, during that time you can shake your head, very gently, NO. Without giving her a chance to say a word I go back to my seat.

On the first seventy-five girls I tried this on, seventy allowed me to return. They said nothing during the one minute. That's the same as inviting me back to their table. The other five shook their head no. The 5 that shook their head no were doing it discreetly from a disctance too so I didn't have to worry about fear of rejection and public humility. When the 70 girls didn't do anything for a minute I'd go over to the table and hit it off. This was nice because anybody that saw me approach this time and sit down would think that I was hitting on her.

What does this do?:

1. You don't have to worry about rejection once sitting down (she already accepted you by not shaking her head).

2. All the other ladies who saw the pick up realized that you were successful. Women want what other women have (or can't get).

If you find out this girls a dud, you can leave the table and more women will be interested in you as a result. It's a win/win situation.

How to write a Online Dating Profile?

The hardest part of all this online dating biz - writing about yourself. Here are some guidelines to help you through it. Try not to be negative or pessimistic in your profile. A first impression is a lasting one. Men bashing to your girlfriends (or vice versa) is fine, but don't do it to your prospective dates! They don't want to hear it, and it might scare them away! Instead of using that space to complain about how lonely and sick of being hurt you are, use it to highlight your positive attributes. Think about what sets you apart from everyone else. What are your strengths and accomplishments? Letting people know why they should date you works a lot better than giving them reasons not to! Another thing to remember is honesty. Getting trashed every night in the company of others is not really the same as "drinking socially." If you can't stand sports, don't say you love them just to grab a guy's attention. You don't want any surprises down the road. And you wouldn't want to be led to believe something that wasn't true, either! Also, let's not be too specific. You may not be able to find a redhead who is 5'3", 119 lbs, loves to fish and gamble, doesn't smoke, drinks socially, cooks nightly ... well, you get the picture. Being that specific might scare off a potential date. Ease up a little!

If you are having a severe case of writer's block, and none of this has helped you, here are a few questions to get your gears turning. What makes you tick? What are your hobbies? If you had an extra day off, how would you spend it? If you could go anywhere in the world, where would it be and why? That should be enough to get you started. Now get to work!